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Common Questions: For Toddler
When the Child Has Cancer

Is there anything I can do to make my son's doctor appointments easier for him?
Bring your child's favorite toys and snacks. The blanket your child loves, a special doll or truck, favorite crackers or juice can all make the hospital less frightening. There are usually toys and snacks at the hospital. However, things that are familiar to your child will be most comforting.

My daughter gets upset during treatment and asks for Misty, her cat. I certainly can't bring Misty with us! What can I do?
Put pictures of your child, your family (siblings, grandparents, pets) and other supportive people in a photo album. That way when you are at the hospital there is a reminder of others. She can look at Misty the whole time she is receiving treatment.

I get so nervous when my son runs around. Is this good for him? Shouldn't we be extra careful with him?
Continue to encourage your child's normal development and independence. Walking, running, playing with toys and friendsare all important activities. Check with your doctor about any restrictions for your child.

I want to make sure I spend some quality time to bond with my child. Do you have any suggestions on a good time to do this?
Reading can be a time of connection. Grab a snuggle and a story whenever you get the chance. We know that you have many extra demands on your time, so this might not be as possible as often as you would like.

What are some toys that may be helpful during this time?

  • Play doctor's kit
  • Dollhouse with family
  • Blank paper, crayons, and finger paints
  • Anything that talks about feelings
  • Favorite toys before they got sick

Do you have a list of websites, books, and other resources on helping kids cope?
Information Finder on Helping Kids Cope

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Revised 2008

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