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Common Questions: Toddler's Sibling
When the Child Has Cancer

My toddler gets very upset when I leave him to bring his sister to treatment. What can I do to help my child when I am not with him?
Create a photo album. Put pictures of you and your child and other supportive people in the photo album. This way when you are not with your child, there is a reminder of you and your family.

I want to make sure I spend some quality time to bond with my child. Do you have any suggestions on a good time to do this?
Reading can be a time of connection. Grab a snuggle and a story whenever you get the chance. We know that you have many extra demands on your time, so this might not be as possible as often as you would like.

What are some toys that may be helpful during this time?

  • Play doctor's kit
  • Dollhouse with family
  • Blank paper, crayons, and finger paints
  • Anything that talks about feelings
  • Favorite toys before their sibling got sick

Do you have a list of websites, books, and other resources on helping kids cope?
Information Finder on Helping Kids Cope

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