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How to Help Kids Cope: For Toddler
When Sister or Brother Has Cancer

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Toddlers need supportive adults to help them understand what is happening. A parent's presence and loving hugs will be important during this time. Tell your child what is going on, but keep it very simple. "Your brother/sister is sick. Your brother/sister has cancer. Your brother/sister needs to go to the hospital. The doctors will give your brother/sister medicine to get better." Repeat this often.

Children this age are very sensitive to change. They are likely to be more upset about your absence than their sibling's illness. Try to keep routines the same if possible, especially around bedtimes. Children do best with a regular routine. Keeping things consistent helps kids feel safe.

When you cannot be with your child, try to limit the caregivers to a few people who your child knows well. This might be a grandparent, a day care provider or a family friend. Be sure those caring for your child, know his/her routines.

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When a child is diagnosed with cancer, it has a significant impact not only on the child, but parents, siblings and extended family as well.

We offer a variety of services to help patients and families gain the support and information they will need to meet the challenges ahead such as:

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