How to Help Kids 3-6 Years Old Cope When the Parent Has Cancer
Preschoolers need supportive adults to help them understand what is happening. A parent’s presence and loving hugs will be important during this time.

Preschoolers need to be told that the cancer is not their fault. They need to know that no one in the family did anything to make mom or dad sick. Having a fight, or saying or thinking something does not cause cancer. Tell your children that we do not know what causes cancer, but many people are working on the problem.

Make sure your child knows that cancer is not contagious. Many children this age will think they can “catch” your cancer, like a cold. Tell them it is fine to hug, kiss and spend time with you. In fact, hugs will make everyone feel better.

Children can have a lot of different feelings when a mom or dad has cancer. They can be sad, angry, worried, or scared. They may feel different feelings on different days. Encourage your child to tell you about their feelings. Make a point to ask them how they are feeling. Assure them that all their feelings are normal.

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